I
have always been introvert as a child, in order to get out of my shell; my mom
had enrolled me with different extra-curricular activities to enhance my social
skill, to the extent that I have chosen my Communication Arts course to be more
sociable. My course was therapeutic for me, I have learned a lot of things in
myself, things that I didn’t expect that I would overcome.
After
graduation, I have often asked this questions until now “What are you doing
with your life?” it’s an easy question, but I am always having a hard time
answering. My mind is screaming, “I am focusing on myself and I would love to
hone my craft and to earn money in the way I liked it” but my mouth is pre-cautiously
uttering “I am still looking for a job but for now I am self employed.” In return
I would be slammed with words “Find any job, don’t be picky. You should earn
more than what you are earning now”
If
you’re going to read it, all they wanted was for me to find a job so that I could
give the necessities that are suitable for my family. I am the eldest it’s my
job my dreams are to follow. But my yearnings for that hope of one day my dreams
would come true and I am going to make it is kept hidden behind my heart and
the only people who knew was my mom and siblings and my best friend.
Years
from now, I am still a nobody; I am still trapped on being a potato.(HAHAHA) I am out
on the open, but I am scared in reaching for that life vest that would save me.
And here I am still trying to do my best
to swim, to not let myself drown on my own tears, so despite of my inner
monsters trying to stop me what I want and despite of others judging me till I lose
myself, I remain calm, positive and still has the drive to achieve what I want,
to the extent others find it stubborn.
I
listen to every criticism they say, I keep it in my heart so that I could
remain strong despite of this storm. So as I was venturing into my own crafts
and dreams, I have come to a place where I feel that somehow I am not the only
one who has been feeling this way, I have been an avid reader of Kaila, Chichi,
Ashley and Anne for quite some time now, and for every sweet knowledge of life
(quotable quotes of positiveness), I have copy and paste it here on my work pad
so that I could keep reminding myself to be positive at all times yet is okay
to be feeling down sometimes and that every dream is possible if you have the
power of believing in it. And I thanked
them for showing me and all the other girls that there is nothing wrong to like
cute things at age 25 :D “It’s okay to
be different sometimes”
photo from chichilittle
Kaila Ocampo (Rainbowholic)
Chichi Romero (LittleMissPaintbrush)
Kaye Romero (DollyKaye)
Anne Pinero (#PhotoByAnnePinero • #hyperstrokes)
Ashley Dy (CandyKawaiiLover)
Here are the things I have learned from our Kawaii Ph leaders
1. On getting out of your comfort zone
a.
“Get uncomfortable” – Kaila (rainbowholic) “Frustrations can be quite a helpful, if you
just acknowledge they exist & you befriend them. Hello frustration,
let’s be friends. And hi future failures, let me learn from all you. Though
please do not slap me too hard when I experience you, thank you. And I do
hope that as I grow and mature, you guys better minimize yourselves lolol. : )”
(http://the.rainbowholic.me/thoughts/dreams-and-comfort-zones/) -Our answers to
remedies is not inside our safe zone but beyond the limits of our own
sanctuaries, we must be able get out of that space and to accept the challenge
life had banged on us, it’s okay to fail sometimes and learn at the same time-
b. “There are no free
lessons in life, so they say. Especially when I’m out there in the wildlands,
nobody’s gonna water me or… nurture me with fertilizer” – Chichi (LittleMissPaintbrush)
– -“ I practiced every chance I got. I just
kept on drawing whenever I could, and soon I began to learn what works for me
and what doesn’t. I still do these things until now!” (http://hello.chi-chi.me/2016/11/the-perks-of-being-a-wildflower/) -In order to improve on yourself,
whether it’s on your artistic skills or on your talents, you need to figure out
things on your own first, what do you visualize for your own self, what are the
ways you need to improve or hone your talents.
c.
“Proper Implementation: Always think ahead! Don’t
be afraid to bend your plans a little if chance doesn’t go your way.” – Ashley
(Candy Kawaii Lover) – (http://ashleydy.com/2011/12/25/progressive/) Sometimes our plans
never work out the way we wanted it, there’s a little bit twist in fate that
made it exciting or sometimes just annoying. It’s okay, all we need to do is to
think about any necessary actions to simply not ruin our day, or just face it
as calmly as possible (easier said than done), but we’ll never know, all we
need is a major guidance from the heavens above, so that our life would be
smooth sailing.
2.
On surrounding yourself with People
c.
“I met a handful of people who touched my life. Some
stayed and some are just for a moment but it’s not about the duration but it’s
about the moments that happened that should be treasured.” – Anne
d. “Right now as I grow older,
I only maintain quality friendships and I no longer make time for half-hearted
relationships that just confuse me. Because I love myself, I know who to keep
close in my life and I try my best to stray away from drama.” - Kaila
3. On inspirations
4. On success
b. “ I personally believe that success is relative, I'm grateful that other
people consider me as such. There are still lots of things that I have to
accomplish when it comes to blogging but for opportunities - does it mean
getting invited to events? free trips abroad?” – Ashley (http://www.thecollegecandy.com/2015/09/Interview-With-Ashley-Dy-of-Candy-Kawaii-Lover.html)
5. On feedbacks
a.
“LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN. Don’t be immediately defensive.
Understanding a feedback takes time, so take your time. Know who the feedback
is coming from, is it biased because they hate/love you? One way to avoid
biased critiques is controlling feedback by initiating/asking for it. This way,
you’re prepared and you’re in control!” – Chichi
6. On how you deal with people who doesn’t
support you
c.
“So when somebody is unsupportive you, don’t let the unsupportive-ness stop you from reaching your full potential.” –
Kaila
d. “When nobody believes you
can, it does not matter. What matters is you believe in yourself” – Kaila
e.
“I’ve encountered some people who would tell me that these
efforts will not do anything for my future, which I find really harsh. But
of course, I should not let these get in my way. I just need to work hard
enough and prove that someday, my dreams WILL come true and they will not
underestimate me anymore” –Kaye
7. ME TIME
a.
“Learn how to be alone. Incubate
yourself. Hibernate from time to time.” – Kaila
8. On failing
a.
“When you hit the rock bottom part of your life, embrace your
sadness for a while but wipe your tears afterwards and be brave enough to face
your own problems head-on (and with a fresh startttt)!” – Kaila
b. “Remember that you have the power to try and try again. As of
the moment, I am still figuring out a lot of things I know I’d make many messy
loops in my life… but it’s okay.” – Kaila
9. It’s Okay to be different
a.
“it is better to be different in a normal crowd. At least, you are
standing out!”- Kaye
10. On Happiness
a.
“ I
got to learn how to be happy from the simple and small things I see around me.
Like this soft-served and macaron. It reminded me that life can be sweet too.”
– Anne (http://anne.kawaii.ph/2016/03/2015/)
11. On achieving your dreams
a.
“I just need to work
hard enough and prove that someday, my dreams WILL come true and they will not
underestimate me anymore.” – (Kaye, DollyKaye)
b. “ When achieving your dreams, the looks + talent combination is
never enough. Looks + talent + RIGHT ATTITUDE will bring you to your dream
destination.” – Kaila
c.
“The world is huge and my world shouldn’t just revolve
in Japan somehow. I miss it so, so much though. Maybe, it’s time to see how far
can I really go” – Ashley
d. “When reaching those dreams of yours, just
work hard.Slowly, one by one, you will reach those dreams.” – (http://the.rainbowholic.me/kawaii/the-dolly-dreams-of-kaye-romero/)
e.
“Analyze your dreams
well, Set your goals, Have a deadline, Live your life, Emerge
yourself to the community you want to be in, You will get there” – Ashley
12. Dreams do Come true
a.
“To be honest I’m teary-eyed typing everything right
now because this is very close to my heart and this is a big proof that DREAMS DO COME TRUE and God is really kind, He grant my wish… my
dream. Well to every dreamer.” – Anne on her first Fashion Photoshoot on
Coleen Garcia
Thank you for taking your time reading my blog
:D I hope this words and wisdom can also help you boost your self esteem/self
confidence the way I do :D To our Kawaii PH Leaders thank you! Thank you for sharing your dreams to all of us! Thank you for lifting our spirits and for helping us reach our dreams ;D :D
You can check their blogs on the link I have
provided on some quotes :D thank you!
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